Thursday 20 December 2012

Finnish Christmas Traditions

Here is a little blurb about Finnish Christmas traditions for anyone interested.... Wishing you all a wonderful Festive Season and a Prosperous New Year!


http://www.family-christmas-traditions.com/Christmas-traditions-in-Finland.html

Tuesday 11 December 2012

Top 100 Names in the UK in 2012

Here is the list of Top 100 Names given to babies in 2012 in the UK!
Probably not surprisingly, Harry is on top of the list for boys (thanks to Prince Harry and Harry Styles from One Direction). But so is Amelia, Lily and Emilia for girls...

Has the Top 100 changed much over the years, we ask...

http://www.netmums.com/pregnancy/baby-names-buys-and-rights/top-100-names-in-2012-in-the-uk

Monday 10 December 2012

Our Little Research Study on Autism & Music - Read Online!

Earlier this year, I had a pleasure of being part of a small research team who investigates the use of music with autistic children. The research project aimed to investigate how musical activities could be used beneficially with children who have autism. It was a collaboration between the University of London and the University of Oulu in Finland, and my role in it was of a Lead Researcher and Music Consultant.

We obtained two small grants for materializing the project - one from the Music Sales Charitable Trust (UK) and the other from the Finn-Guild Scholarship Scheme. The latter wanted to promote our wonderful research and so we wrote a small article for their monthly magazine.

Here is the link to the magazine - you can find our study featured on Page 16:

http://www.finn-guild.org/en/content/horisontti-winter-2012

Thursday 6 December 2012

Benefits of Self-Massage

Self massage is an ancient practice originating from India where it is still performed on a daily basis. Massaging yourself wit oil on a regular basis has many benefits to the mind and body. These include: rejuvenating the skin; balancing the nervous system; lubricating the joints; soothing the endocrine system; and strengthening the immune system. In India, it is believed that if babies are massaged on a daily basis, they will grow into strong and healthy individuals.

Aubri Barnes, a Holistic Health Counselor, has written short instructions as to how to perform self-massage at the comfort of your home. Please take a look at the link below - and treat yourself to an awesome massage!

http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-6988/How-to-Go-Ahead-and-Give-Yourself-an-Awesome-Massage.html 

Tuesday 4 December 2012

The Ministry of Stories

The Ministry of Stories is a creative writing and mentoring centre for young people in east London. The organization uses storytelling to inspire young people aged 8-18, in the belief that writing unleashes their imaginations and builds confidence, self-respect and communication.

Nick Hornby, Lucy Macnab and Ben Payne founded the Ministry of Stories in 2010. In its first year, over 3000 young people took part in our volunteer-led workshops and writing projects. Our inspiration came from the writer Dave Eggers and educator Ninive Calegari, who opened a shop for pirates and writing centre called 826 Valencia in San Francisco.

For more information, please see their website:

http://www.ministryofstories.org/

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Monday 3 December 2012

Migrant Mum-project in London

I recently had a pleasure to be part of a project called Migrant Mums. The project consists of text and photography, portraying migrant mothers and mothers-to-be living in London. The project illustrates thoughts, experiences and life struggles and triumphs of the participant women.

Two migrant ladies, Yuka and Ryoko, came up with the concept and have interviewed and taken photos of dozens of migrant women living in London.  Yuka was born and raised in New York. She works on the editorial team at Granta magazine (www.granta.com) and writes fiction and non-fiction. Ryoko grew up on the edge of Tokyo in Japan. Since 2006, she has been working as a freelance photographer for magazines in London.  She has done several personal projects about communities and tribes, such as Brazilian-Japanese communities, suburban youth gangs and a senior centre in Islington. Her website is www.ryokouyama.com. 

The website of the project contains a profile for each mother/ mother-to-be who took part in the project. The leaders of the project are also planning to turn it into a book

The project is still on-going, so if you are migrant mother/ mother-to-be living in London, it is not too late to take part!

Here is the website of the project:
http://migrantmumlondon.tumblr.com/

Saturday 1 December 2012

Alternative London - Street Art in East London




 Anyone who has walked around the East End of London must have noticed the striking graffitis that decorate the area and add to its unique character. You can see graffiti by different street artists simply by walking around on your own, but an excellent way see more of it is by taking part in an alternative tour of London. More information on organized walks and bike tours can be found at:
http://www.alternativeldn.co.uk/






Friday 30 November 2012

Are you Feeling Resentful?

No doubt that all of us have felt resentment during our lives. Have you felt hurt by someone, or perhaps you have been the one to upset someone else and feel guilty about this?


When we have felt betrayed, hurt or done-wrong-by, it can be hard just to forgive and forget, accumulating to strong sensations of resentment. Resentment can then make us experience deep feelings of sadness, pain and anger. It can lead to lowered self-esteem and even make us feel unworthy. Over time, it can be very damaging - not just to ourselves but also to people around us.

Caroline Rushforth, an NLP Coach, points out in her latest article that, although it is human nature to mentally revisit upsetting experiences as a way of processing the experience, holding onto resentment is considered a way of punishing yourself or the other person. Carrying around feelings of resentment, you can hurting yourself, as it drains your resources. However, Caroline is adamant that it is entirely your own choice - it is your own internal processing system that determines how you feel about what others have said or done.

In her article, Caroline goes onto explain how we can deal with resentment and let go off it. Please read the full article attached below - and let all your resentment go!

http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-6778/How-to-Let-Go-of-Resentment.html 

Thursday 29 November 2012

Beautiful Online Christmas Calendars

It's that time of the year again when adults and children alike are getting ready for another Christmas. It seems that for many, it is the run-up to Christmas that excites them more than Christmas itself. Buying presents for loved ones, decorating the tree, baking yummy foods... Christmas itself always seems to go by so fast!

Another lovely Christmas tradition that in particular children love is having an Advent or Christmas Calendar. It is the highlight of children's mornings during December to each day open a new window in the calendar and discover a new picture, saying or even a sweet. Nowadays, there are so many different kinds of calendars to choose from, from the funny ones to more spiritual ones, that there is bound to be a suitable one for all of us.

If you fancy trying out an online Christmas Calendar this year, here is an excellent link that gives you ten different ones to choose from and will be a splendid way to start each of your days during December:


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/11/30/online-advent-calendars_n_789288.html

Tuesday 27 November 2012

'My First Book of Christmas Songs' by Bergerac


It is that time of the year again when all of my piano students start asking me to bring Christmas songs along to our lessons. Everyone has their favourite ones that they want to learn - yet, some arrangements can be tricky for beginner and lower intermediate learners.

Luckily I came across 'My First Book of Christmas Songs', by Bergerac. This book includes 20 well-known Christmas songs in easy piano arrangements, making them accessible to learners at any level. The songs are organized in order of difficulty and so the beginning of the book contains those that even beginners can play (such as 'an easy version of 'Silent Night') and the end of the book contains more elaborate versions of Christmas classics.

If you love Christmas songs, check out the book and dive into the wonderful world of Christmas music:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/First-Christmas-Songs-Dover-ebook/dp/B008TVLOY8

Monday 26 November 2012

Online Yoga Communities - a growing trend

Over the past year, I have seen many online yoga communities spring up. Often such sites offer home practice advice, videos and other tips on how to improve your yoga practice or how to start one. They are great for busy people who cannot attend a regular yoga class or for anyone else looking for some sort of support and guidance for their yoga practice at home.

One such a yoga website and online yoga community launched recently is called Yoga Guardian. I have been following them for some weeks now and I can warmly recommend their home videos that are posted on their online forum once a week. They offers tips and advice that are easy to incorporate into your daily practice, whether this takes places as formal yoga practice or more as a philosophy that you apply to your life.

The site is suitable for beginners, as well as more advanced practitioners. One of the most attractive features of the site is that it emphasises how yoga is a way of life. In fact, as soon as you enter the site, you are taken to the calming world of yoga through peaceful music and beautiful photos.

Why not take a look at their site and also find them on Facebook? You never know, they might be the  yoga community that you have been looking for

http://www.yogaguardian.com/

https://www.facebook.com/YogaGuardian 

Get Yoga Stretching at the Stretch Studio in East London

Stretch, a new yoga studio located in London Fields in East London, has opened its doors. The studio is a friendly space for trying out yoga, deepening your practice or simply popping in for some relaxation.

The classes on offer range from dynamic yoga to pregnancy yoga, offering something for everyone. The class schedule has been designed to suit the needs of individuals with different daily timetables. All the teachers are excellently trained professionally and the staff are friendly.

Also, the drop in and class pass prices are on the more affordable side of the scale - so you have no excuse but to go and try yoga out if you don't live far from the area!

For more information, please see the studio's website:

http://www.stretchlondon.org/

  

Thursday 22 November 2012

Farmers' Markets in London

Although London is a huge cosmopolitan city, it is easy to find places for relaxation and for 'the village feeling'. The green parks and squares are such places and so are the little cobbled alleyways, with small old fashioned tea houses and book shops.

Another countryside-ish phenomenon that has sprang up across London over the past couple of years is Farmers' Markets. Such markets sell fresh veggies, fruit and baked goods from farmers themselves. You can also find homemade organic cheese and eggs from such markets. The markets often take place over the weekends on square, parking lots or any other wider spaces in residential areas.

To find the closet market to your house and for more specific information on products that are sold on the markets, see the link below:

http://www.lfm.org.uk/  

Tuesday 20 November 2012

Amaia - Adorable Children's Clothes

Amaia, a children's clothes shop, opened its new branch close to where I live in London. I wandered in one day and couldn't help myself spending some time adoring their beautiful clothes. Each piece of clothing is unique and you can only imagine children looking stunning in such pretty clothes.

Not to worry if you don't live in London yet love the look of the clothes - although the shop has a couple of stores across London, they also sell their products online.

Take a look at their winter catalogue here:

http://www.amaiakids.co.uk/engine/shop/index.html

Monday 19 November 2012

Time Out Magazine... Now a Freebie!

The historic Time Out magazine that lists happenings and events across London is now being given out for free! It is handed out on Tuesday mornings at tube stations, main railway stations and also some museums and galleries.

If you are not around such places on Tuesday mornings, you can also pick up a free copy from selected museums and galleries during the week. You can also order it to be sent to your home every week, and you only need to pay for the postage.

Have a look for more details in the link below - and have some deserved Time Out!

http://www.timeout.com/london/free-mag/

Friday 16 November 2012

Cave Rescue... and Stories about it

Lucy Dawson has written many novels in her lifetime, yet the latest one somehow caught my attention. It tells a story about a girl who gets lost in an underwater cave and a cave rescue team needs to come and save her. The story is gripping and you literally want to finish the whole book at one sitting.

The book also got me thinking about the importance of operations such as cave divers. Take a look at this site for some inspiring stories - and also here is Lucy Dawson's website:

http://cro.org.uk/

http://www.lucydawsonbooks.co.uk/ 

Wednesday 14 November 2012

All Things Liquorice

I'm kind of wishing now that I hadn't come across this online shop.... I am the biggest liquorice lover that you could possibly think of. Now, baring that in mind, imagine me finding an online shop that has dedicated itself for selling different types of liquorice from different countries - Heaven on Earth, as they say!

All Things Liquorice sells all types of liquorice from most European countries, New Zealand and the US. They ship all over the world too. If you have a liquorice graving but can't find the stuff in the local shops around where you live, head to this site and stock up on your goodies!

http://www.allthingsliquorice.co.uk/content/top/home.html  

Tuesday 13 November 2012

New Personal Website

Dear Readers, I have a new personal website that brings you up to date information on all my ventures. The website has sections for my educational, music, charity and writing work.

This blog and other sites that I write to are linked to it so that everyone can happily see what is going on in my world!

The web address is:www.tiijarinta.com

Monday 12 November 2012

A Totally Swedish Shop in London

Knowing that I won't be going to Finland for Christmas this year, I started missing some Scandinavian Christmas foods this weekend. The Finnish Church in London has a shop that sells all kinds of Finnish foods, but they are located a little far from where I live. Luckily, however, the Swedish Church is just around the corner from my house and they also have a shop!

I have been to the shop, Totally Swedish, a couple of times before, but never bought anything as I always felt that the prices were triple to those in Scandinavia. This weekend I decided to treat myself, though, to their Christmas goodies. I left the shop with a bag filled with ginger cookies, rye bread and lingonberry jam. I noticed that they sell ingredients for making all kinds of Christmas foods as well, so I will definitely pay them another visit closer to the Festive Season!

If you are in need of, or just curious about, Scandinavian foods, pay the Totally Swedish a visit -

http://www.totallyswedish.com/en/about  

Wednesday 7 November 2012

'Poems of Essence: Life, Love & Pain' by Marie Skilling

I got in touch with an old friend from university earlier this year, because we both share a passion for yoga and have spent time in South Asia. Thanks to modern social networking sites, it is easy nowadays to connect with those who share interests with you. Another passion that we both have is writing, as I discovered whilst chatting to her about yoga. This friend has, in fact, recently published her first book of poetry. She also writes a regular blog and is working on other pieces of writing, in addition to doing photography work and teaching tantric yoga.

I was excited to order a copy of the poetry book titled 'Poems of Essence: Life, Love and Pain', and to discover what sort of poetry it held inside. I was taken to a world deeply touched by the essence of life, coloured with deep feelings of love and pain. What I enjoyed most about the book was the beautiful words used in delivering the essence of each poem, which all contained small stories, journeys and experiences from the author's life. The book is autobiographical and I am sure that it has taken much courage from the author to share her life journey with us through her poems.

I would like to share the links to the author's website and blog here where you can take a glimpse of her writing, as well as order a copy of her poetry book, should you feel like reading some beautiful poems about life:

http://marieskilling.com/

http://picouture.com/


Monday 5 November 2012

Sundaes on a Sunday

Wondering down Brick Lane in East London yesterday, I recalled a lovely cafe in the end of the street. I had popped in earlier in the year after visiting the Columbia Road Flower Market around the corner. The cafe is called Benets and serves some of the best hot chocolate in town!

Benets started off as a one-off shop in Cambridge in the UK, with its specialty being different flavoured ice-creams. And these ice-creams are truly divine! They are the creamy Italian type, with flavours ranging from Snickers to Black Forest Berries. They also make delicious smoothies and sundaes out of these creamy pleasures, which without a doubt would be a delightful surprise for anyone's birthday. In addition to ice-cream, they serve sweet and savoury crepes and pancakes, as well as other dishes and hot drinks.

Having proved to be a popular cafe, Benets soon expanded to London and now has one shop in Brick Lane. They host events, exhibitions and gigs, and have a license to sell alcohol during the evenings.

You can find them on Facebook and be lured into popping in for a sundae or a glass of something warm:

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Benets-brick-lane/332925613400545

Sunday 4 November 2012

Pearls to Wellness

Many of my friends have recently complained about feeling stressed out or tired, and wanting to do something about it. It feels that the modern lifestyle is wearing people down, with everyone running from place to place and having tons of things to do.

Most of us find out own ways of dealing with the pressures of modern life. Like for myself, yoga has always been a refuge and I cannot imagine my life with my yoga practice. Sometimes it is just a matter of time to figure out the most suitable and beneficial ways to counteract stress for yourself.

When you are on this journey to enhanced well-being, tips and suggestions from others may help a great deal. This is why I want to share with you the link to an excellent online wellness community that shares advice and ideas on how to live healthier and more fulfilling lives in the 21st century:

www.mindbodygreen.com

Tuesday 30 October 2012

India Head Massage... Less Known yet Very Effective

A friend of mine is doing a course in Indian head massage and needed case-study participants for her course report. I was very eager to volunteer, because I had heard of the massage many times before yet never quite knew what it was like. I was simply curious to experience it myself and I am glad that I did!

Now that I have had three sessions of it, I can truly recommend this type of massage to anyone, but in particular to those who suffer from headaches, migraines and sinusitis. The massage is also excellent for anyone looking for some relaxation and for releasing stress, as well as for improving the quality of sleep. I have problems with sinusitis often, as well as with headaches, for which the massage was ideal.

Indian head massage originates form India, as you might have guessed. In Asia, the massage is only done in the head and neck, but in the West, it has been mixed with Western style massage and been extended to shoulders and the upper body. This is what makes it particularly appealing to us here in the West who spend a lot of time sitting on the desk and in other mundane tasks.

From the link www.bodytissue.com/library/massage-therapy-articles/indian-head-massage, one can find more specific information on the massage... But below is a list of benefits that have been associated with the massage - isn't the list long enough for you to want to give it a try?

Physical Benefits
Significant improvement noticed with:
• Migraine and headaches
• Sinusitis
• Stress related disorders
• Insomnia and disturbed sleep
• Temporor – Mandibular Joint tension (TMJ)
• Suppleness and flexibility to head, neck and shoulders
• Increase of oxygen and glucose supply to the brain
• Scalp stimulation increasing blood circulation,  promoting healthy hair
• Increases cerebral spinal fluid circulation
• Improves muscle tone
• Calms the respiratory system, helping asthma
Mental Benefits
Indian Head Massage promotes:
• A sense of calmness, peace and tranquillity
• Release from anxiety, stress and mental stain
• Relief from depression
• High levels of concentration
• Clearer thinking and focus
• Relaxation
• Sound sleep and relief from nightmares
• Renewed energy
• Aids memory
• Chakra balancing and energetic healing
  

Sunday 28 October 2012

Blandfords - the Ideal Place for Breakfast or Authentic Italian Food in London


Blandfords is a restaurant & cafe located in Marylebone in central London. It used to be a traditional English cafe specialising in traditional English breakfasts. They still have probably the best full English breakfast on their menu, but they are nowadays run by a group of Italians and therefore also offer the best pizzas (the Napoli style for only a £5!), Italian sweets and coffees in town. 

I popped into the cafe with my friend yesterday. Their hot chocolate was heavenly, made with real Italian chocolate and served in a pretty mug with marshmallows floating on top. The staff there were very friendly and welcoming. The cafe is decorated with old-style posters and there was music from the 60s and 70s playing in the background. It is one of those places that one would always go to for the entire afternoon, to chillax and read a book over a hot cup of something delicious! 

And even better yet, the prices are lower than at any chain coffee shops and the homemade-style food is much more affordable and satisfying than in most high street restaurants. 

http://www.allinlondon.co.uk/directory/1150/23867.php

Friday 26 October 2012

Meditation and Mindfulness

If you ever wondered what being mindful means, or if you are not sure of the distinction and the inter-relationship between meditation and mindfulness, read the latest post on Goop (blog hosted by Gwyneth Paltrow).

You can find an interview there with a meditation teacher who explains the mentioned concepts in a clear and simple way. You will also find short youtube clips there with guided meditations, in case you ever fancied giving meditation a try but never got round to it....

http://goop.com/journal/be/198/change?utm_source=goop+issue&utm_campaign=05fe8191ae-Goop_Issue_198_25_11_2012&utm_medium=email

Tuesday 23 October 2012

Health Benefits of Yoga

Having practiced yoga for many years, I am the first one to shout out about its health benefits, both for the body and the mind. Many people are still skeptical of this though, not seeing yoga as 'proper exercise'. But that exactly is the beauty of it - it is it's own complete system that integrates the physical, mental and spiritual aspects of our being. Once engaged in on a regular basis, great benefits for the whole being can be recorded.

If you have thought of trying yoga out and wondered whether it is worth it, have a read of this short article and I am sure that all the health benefits listed there will make you want to give it a try:

www.theschooloflife.com/blog/2012/10/yoga-strong-medicine/ 

Monday 15 October 2012

Going Back to the Roots... Orthodoxy

Three out of four of my grandparents are (and were) Orthodox Christians. Yet, I grew up in a more atheist household since neither of parents were religious and rather held their own views of such issues. This is why I didn't learn much about Orthodox religion and still as an adult was not too sure of the differences between the Orthodox traditions and other branches of Christianity.

About two percent of Finnish citizens consider themselves Orthodox. The roots of the religion lie on the side of Russia, from where the Russian Orthodox Church initially took a foothold in Finland when refugees fled the area of Karelia during the turbulent times of the World Wars. In 1923, the Finnish Orthodox Church was established. The church has always had a strong presence in the country - an example of this is the centre of Helsinki where you have the Lutheran Church in the spot centre of the city and, then right next to it, the Orthodox Cathedral.

What normally distinguishes the outlook of an Orthodox Church from those of other branches of Christianity is that these churches are much more decorated. They are painted more colourfully both inside and outside, with onion-shaped towers rising with golden rims rising from the roof. Inside, you can see colourful paintings of Saints and Archangels, as well as golden decorations. This is a stark contrast to the Lutheran tradition, for example, that generally keeps its churches very plain.

Recently, I visited the Russian Orthodox Church in central London. I was curious to go and see how it looks and was surprised to find out that it looked more Lutheran than Orthodox with its plainer outlook. It was interesting to see the difference compared to the Finnish Orthodox Church. Perhaps this is another cultural aspect of religion worth looking more into... It again raises the question of how far religion and culture are inter-mingled.

The Uspenski Orthodox Cathedral in the centre of Helsinki


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Monday 8 October 2012

Crowdfunding - Excellent Way for Fundraising Small Amounts

I had previously heard about Crowd Funding, but I only really got the gist of it recently when a colleague mentioned it and reminded me of its existence. The Crowdfunder is a website that is run by the University of Exeter and its aim is to fund small projects (generally up to £500 but it can be larger amounts) in the UK. The projects can range from individual artists wanting to have enough money for successful art projects to supporting the harvesting of olives in Palestine.

The Crowdfunder works in a way that UK residents can post their projects online and then potential funders (e.g. business or well-off individuals) looking into investing in worthy projects can search the database and pick their fundees. Once the set fundraising target has been achieved, the website takes 5% commission in order to be able to keep functioning.

A website definitely worth keeping in mind and looking into when thinking of funding a small-scale project:

www.crowdfunder.co.uk

Wednesday 3 October 2012

'Just Another Manic Mum-Day' by Mink Elliott

Looking for something light to read in my local library, I started browsing through the new arrivals in 'The Light Reads' section. At the moment, I work with and for young mothers and so the title 'Just Another Manic Mum-Day' caught my eye. The humourous back cover of the book and the colourful front cover made me borrow it and I am glad that I did, as it turned out to be one of the funniest books that I have read in a long time!

Mink Elliott is an author who has spent extensive time both in the UK and in Australia. She has a witty writing style that suits equally well female and male young adults and adults. Her firs novel 'The Pissed-off Parents Club' has been a best -seller in many countries.

Here is a link for finding out more about Mink Elliott and her books:

http://minkelliott.com/
  

Sunday 30 September 2012

Exhibitions to Wonder to in London...


... at the British Museum. I had a chance to pop into this wonderful establishment this weekend. The permanent collections of the museum alone are worth exploring to learn about the entire world, but on top of that, they always have excellent special exhibitions on offer.

At the moment, the special exhibitions range from the Drinking Culture in Asia to Living & Dying. The museum always has at least four different special exhibition on at the same time, so chances are that you'll find something to see that will appeal to you.

I particularly enjoyed the exhibition on different cultures and how they interact with nature and natural forces when it comes to celebrating birth and death.

Take a look at their website for more detailed information and wonder over there one day to learn something new and to entertain yourself:  

www.britishmuseum.org/whats_on.aspx?ref=header

Friday 28 September 2012

SpaTone - Natural Iron Supplement Worth Trying

I have battled low hemoglobin levels in my blood over the past couple of months. Main reason for this was that I was ill with severe malaria in August and the illness, as well as the medicine for the illness, killed too many of my red blood cells.

Western doctors, of course, wanted to prescribe me with some extremely strong iron tablets, which without a doubt would have messed up my stomach. So instead of taking those, I decided to try out a natural iron supplement called SpaTone. This supplement is 100% natural and simply iron-rich water straight from a spring in Wales. The water is in small sachets and you need to drink one or two per day, depending on your iron need.

I suffered zero side-effects when taking the supplement (in fact, I am still taking it even though my hemoglobin is now back to normal). And after taking it just for 5 days, my hemoglobin was back to normal levels!

I would thoroughly recommend SpaTone to anyone wanting to take iron supplements! You can find it at Boots or healthy shops in the UK, or you can order it online:

www.nelsonsnaturalworld.com/en-gb/uk/our-brands/spatone/ 

Tuesday 25 September 2012

Bisexuality and Mental Health - Surprising Statistics?

I went to an event on bisexual visibility in London with a friend last weekend. I admit that before this event, I didn't know much about bisexual visibility in London; except that obviously everyone is allowed to show their own sexual orientation in London, no matter what that might be.

So, as a new-comer, I picked up some leaflets and information that they had on tables around the cosy pub where the event took place. One leaflet in particular caught my eye. It was on bisexuality and mental health. I learnt that bisexual people have the worst mental health problems, including higher rates of depression, anxiety, self-harm and suicide. This has been found in the UK and internationally, and is linked to experiences of biphobia and bisexual invisibility.

I was surprised as I had never thought of this issue before. I asked my friend about it and she said that it was probably also linked to the fact that people couldn't 'box' bisexuals as easily as they could people with other sexual orientations. She said that there was also a lot of prejudice around the issue as people tended to think that bisexuals were less likely to want to stay in long-term relationships and were more likely to swap from one partner to another. 

When I got home, I found some interesting articles on the issue. I include here one of the most informative ones. I am sure that it will open your eyes to the issue as much as it opened my eyes. 

http://news.pinkpaper.com/NewsStory/6946/16/02/2012/bisexuals-endure-worse-mental-health-problems-and-suffer-equality-gap-report-claims.aspx 

Monday 10 September 2012

Black Sea Twilight

I was recently taken very ill and needed some books and films to keep my mind off the illness itself. Luckily I had by chance stumbled across a novel in a charity shop that offered me the refuge that I was seeking for.

Black Sea Twilight written by a Romanian author called Domnica Radulescu captured me straight from its first paragraph. The books is about the time of Communism in Romania in the 1980s and it describes effectively how living under a Communist regime shaped people's lives.

The book tells the story of main character, Nora, a young lady who lives in a beautiful seaside town. The reader follows Nora's struggles over the years, in particular her love story with a Turkish boy, and holds one's breath as Nora and her love decide to escape from the regimented country and to start all over in a different place.  

Radulescu is an excellent writer who truly captured the life in Romania with colourful and emotionally-ridden dialogue. Not only did I learn a great deal about the history and culture of Romania, but I also felt that the characters were so real that they became my friends during the journey of their young lives.

I will definitely look out for other books by Radulescu and would thoroughly recommend Black Sea Twilight. 

www.goodreads.com/book/show/8593763-black-sea-twilight-domnica-radulescu

Friday 11 May 2012

Richmix

The Richmix, a community hub and cultural centre, in East London deserves some attention. It is a cultural centre located close to Liverpool Station that offers opportunities for the local community to experience cultural events, such as music and dance performances as well as art exhibitions and film nights, but also for themselves to perform and exhibit their art work.

The atmosphere at Richmix is laidback,warm and welcoming. I recently popped in with a friend to an evening on short films and felt very much at home.

http://www.richmix.org.uk/

Tuesday 1 May 2012

Saatchi gallery

I ventured into the Saatchi Gallery in Sloane Square yesterday after not having been there for many years. At the moment, they have a beautiful photographic exhibition on, which includes artistic photos of cities, nature, people... It left me feelings inspired and like I wanted to tune more into my creative and artistic side.

http://www.saatchi-gallery.co.uk/

Monday 16 April 2012

100 Days to Go... to London Olympics

On the plane back to London yesterday, I was reading an in-flight magazine. There was an article in the magazine that listed 99 reasons to celebrate the games in London. Here is a selective few that anyone in London this summer might find of interest:

* On the 27th July, a 3-minute chorus of bells will ring out across the land to signal the start of the Olympic games.

* Florence + the Machine, Tinie Tempah and Leona Lewis amongst others will perform at the biggest ever free-ticket live music event at Radio 1's Hackney Weekend 23-24 June.

* London Live 2012 includes live coverage of the games on giant screens in Hyde Park, Victoria Park and Trafalgar Square.

* BT River of Music, a free music festival takes place along the Thames 21-22 July.

 * Exhibition Road in Kensington turns into a massive street party during 28 July- 5 August.

* Big Dance is the world's largest dance initiative throughout the UK. Highlights include a cast of more than 1,000 dancers in Trafalgar Square.

* Head to London's Southbank Centre to hear poets from every competing Olympic nation read the Poetry Parnassus festival.

* Tate Modern will reveal new pieces of art and also hosts several live art events during the games.   

Tuesday 27 March 2012

The Create Place

I used to volunteer for the charity that hosts this great craft workshop space in East London. Anyone who loves to knit, do crochet or anything else crafty, should check this place out. They run weekly workshops that are very reasonably prices and great fun to attend. On top of that all the profits go to charity.
So get your knitting gear out and go and do something creative and fun with others that share the same passion with you!

http://www.thecreateplace.co.uk/

Sunday 12 February 2012

Richard Bach: 'Jonathan Livingston Seagull a story'

Here is a link to a book that I read this weekend.... The author specifically states in the acknowledgments that, if the reader enjoys reading the book and gets something out of it, (s)he should pass it onto others as an educational source without charging anything.

So here I go - it is worth setting a few hours aside and reading through the little yet very rich book. I shall not say more about it -- Do read it and discover the essence of it yourself!

http://img1.liveinternet.ru/images/attach/b/2/3599/3599086_richard_bach__jonathan_livingston_seagull.pdf

Wednesday 8 February 2012

'Sabra Zoo' - a novel and film by Mischa Hiller

'Sabra Zoo' is the book that I had been looking for sometime - a book that I could not put down, but simply had to keep on reading till I got to the end. The story captured me from the firs line and I was barely breathing till I read the final paragraph of it. The story truly touches your heart and makes you reflect on how our lives are shaped by where we are born and which nationality and religion we carry.

No surprise that the book has gained international recognision and Hiller has won prices for it.
Below is more detailed information about the book and links to the author's website:

The book is about Beirut under siege in 1982. Members of the Palestinian Liberation Organization (PLO) have been evacuated and war is about erupt between different religious and racial groups. Ivan, a teenager holding Danish and Palestinian citizenship decides to remain in Lebanon after his parents are evacuated to interpret for international medical volunteers. Whilst working as an interpreter in Sabra refugee camp, he is also working undercover for the PLO. Ivan befriends Youssef - an orphan receiving medical aid after being disabled by a cluster bomb. He also harbours feelings for Eli, the Norwegian physiotherapist who, in turn, is plagued by doubts of her own.

The assassination of the president-elect is the prologue of a massacre in Beirut. A massacre is carried out by the Israeli army as it enters Beirut, and the scene becomes the camp story franchised into international headlines. The stench of war crimes - rape, mass execution and decapitation force Ivan to face the quest for survival and search for Youssef - a final attempt at saving a fragment of humanity from Sabra.

This brief, explosive account of the weeks leading up to the massacre of Palestinians at the Sabra and Shatila refugee camps in September 1982 is a timely reminder of Lebanon's divided past and precarious future.

'Beautifully told, ambitious and important, this is a debut with something to say.' Ronan Bennett 'Mischa Hiller has written a moving and haunting novel, a narrative for our tormented times.' Fergal Keane --Reviews and endorsements

www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/reviews/sabra-zoo-by-mischa-hiller-1948104.html

www.mischahiller.com/

Sunday 29 January 2012

Zarina Bhimji at Whitechapel Art Gallery

I discovered an interesting artist recently at the Whitechapel Art Gallery - Zarina Bhimji.
In the current exhibition, rarely seen earlier works are presented alongside more ambitious film narratives.

Zarina Bhimji was born in Mbarara, Uganda in 1963 to Indian parents, and moved to Britain in 1974, two years after the expulsion of Uganda’s Asian community in the Idi Amin era. All Asians had to flee from the country. Because of this, Bhimji feels that she has three identities - Uganda, Asian and British. This comes across strongly in her work. In particular her film work revolves around the themes of identity, liberty and human values.

I was deeply touched by her amazing grasp on all aspects of film making - sound, shooting, colour... And not least her ideas on how to explore and present certain themes. I warmly recommend the exhibition!
www.whitechapelgallery.org/exhibitions/zarina-bhimji

Thursday 26 January 2012

Books by Robin Sharma

I have recently had a chance to read some of Robin Sharma's books. He most well known for his book 'The Monk who Sold His ferrari'. All of his books are novels with a spiritual message hidden in them. They make one reflect on one's values and beliefs through a clearly written narrative that flows from one page to another effortlessly.

For more details on the books, please Sharma's website:

www.robinsharma.com

Monday 23 January 2012

Spas in London for ultimate relaxation

I had a real treat this weekend when a friend of mine took me to her health club & spa in central London. I have an afternoon of swimming, soaking in the jacuzzi, the steam room and a dry sauna that left me feeling utterly relaxed and refreshed.


The chain of health clubs has a very nice atmosphere. Staff is friendly, there is a coffee shop area where you can have tea and coffee for free, watch TV and read the papers after your exercise and spa experience. The changing rooms are spacious and there are plants everywhere. All the clients are friendly and chatty. It is easy to become friends with people there. Perhaps the friendly atmsphere of the place itself attracts certain kind of people, or perhaps people are influenced by the atmosphere and are willing to socialise once at the club....


Definitely worth exploring if you are in London and looking for some relaxation. The prices are cheap-ish too for what you get. Find out more on their website:


www.bannatyne.co.uk

Sunday 22 January 2012

Buddhist Puja Ritual

I recently participated in a Buddhist puja ritual. I have been intrigued by the religion, or rather their philosophy to life, for many years and studied it extensively. I have been practicing meditation and attending talks and events about Buddhism, but never before participated in their ritual.


I found the experience cleansing and invigorating. One does not need to do anything than simply sit and watch as the ritual unfold, equally one can join in the chanting, prayers, giving offerings and reciting of mantras. What I found most empowering about this ritual is that it essentially acknowledges that we all have the Buddha nature in us and can aspire to be the best we can during this lifetime.

In essence, the ritual encourages everyone to aspire to be the kindest, humblest and loving people that we can. It reminds all of us of our true nature and how we can return to our natural state of being.


Here are the mantras that were recited during the ritual:


‘We reverence the Buddha, the Perfectly Enlightened One, the Shower of the Way.

We reverence the Dharma, the Teaching of the Buddha, which leads from darkness to Light.

We reverence the Sangha, the fellowship of the Buddha’s disciplines, that inspires and guides us.’


We reverence the Buddha, and aspire to follow Him.

The Buddha was born, as we are born.

What the Buddha overcame, we too can overcome;

What the Buddha attained, we too can attain.


We reverence the Dhrama, and aspire to follow it,

With body, speech and mind, until the end.

The Truth in all its aspects, the Path in all its stages,

We aspire to study, practice, realise.


We reverence the Sangha, and aspire to follow it;

The fellowship of those who treat the Way.

As, one by one, we make our commitment,

An ever-widening circle, the Sangha grows.’


‘Reverencing the Buddha, we offer flowers-

Flowers that today are fresh and sweetly blooming,

Flowers that tomorrow are faded and fallen.

Our bodies too, like flowers, will pass away.


Reverencing the Buddha, we offer candles.

To Him, who is the Light, we offer light.

From His greater lamp a lesser lamp we light within us:

The lamp of Bodhi shining within our hearts.


Revernecing the Buddha, we offer incense,

Incense whose fragrance pervades the air.

The fragrance of the perfect life, sweeter than incense,

Spreads in all directions throughout the world.’


By VEN.SANGHARAKSHITA

Thursday 19 January 2012

Museum of Childhood: Revisit the Magic World of Childhood

The Museum of Childhood in Bethnal Green (East London) is a museum for what its name implies...childhood. It is a special museum that forms a part of the V&A museum located in South Kensington. It holds a permanent collection of toys, books, games and other objects from the past four centuries. It is an interesting place for seeing the evolution of children’s stuff form the 16 century to modern day. One can get lost in reminiscing one’s childhood and in seeing the characters and stories from one’s early life. It is an intriguing and nostalgic place for adults to visit, and an exciting place for children to explore.


The museum also hosts a number of temporary exhibitions that are changed every couple of months. At the moment, there are several interesting exhibitions worth visiting:


  • The front room of the museum has been taken over by ‘Dreams and Nightmares’. The exhibition has been put together by artists who worked with local primary school children. There are drawings and collage made on stories and nightmares. It makes one reflect on the importance of dreams, and nightmares, - and how essentially life is very similar to dreams and nightmares....


  • The front room also hosts a small photograph exhibition by a well-known artist Julia Margaret Cameron. She has photographed children over many years and managed to capture the innocence of childhood very effectively. The photos are captivating with their angelic aura. They truly bring out the beauty of this fragile phase in our lives.


  • As you venture into the main area of the museum, in the central area, there is a small exhibition by Cathie Pilkington that consist of small status of storybook characters. The statues have been constructed with mixed media (meal, wood, thread....) and painted with bright colours. Each one of them looks very real and it feels as if the characters from a story book have come alive.


  • On the first floor is the main temporary exhibition ‘Magic Worlds’. The exhibition is precisely about what it’s blurb introduction states: ‘to step into a magical world is to leave reality behind and accept the fantastical’. The exhibition hosts snippets from a range of well-known stories. You can revisit Cinderella, Hans and Gretel, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings...


  • ‘Magic Worlds’ is followed by a special exhibition on ‘Magic’. It contains equipment that magicians have used over decades and information, as well as films, on famous magicians and their key tricks. The films and video footage nicely compliment the text and objects presented in the exhibition.


  • ‘Fairyland’ is found on the first floor after the ‘Magic’ exhibition. The ‘Fairyland’ covers the history of fairies and most well-known fairy stories. There is also a small section dedicated to other imaginary creatures, such as witches and dragons.


* Finally, in the corridor leading from the temporary exhibition to the permanent collections, ‘The Imagination of Children‘ presents pencil drawings of children when they are lost in their imagination with their eyes closed. The pictures depict the active imagination of children effectively and highlight the importance of it in childhood.... as well as the fact how adults often lose their ability to imagine as they grow older.


The exhibitions make the visitor reflect on how our lives are like stories that we are the lead characters in and can control. It hist the essence of life in the words from Shakespear’s ‘Midsummer Night’s Dream’ - ‘It’s all but a dream’. So dream on and dream a dream that you want to dream. Go and remind of yourself of your dreams in this exhibition!

www.vam.ac.uk/moc

Tuesday 17 January 2012

Nick Thorpe... his books are pearls!

I recently read a book by Nick Thorpe. I had heard the name before, but hadn't read any of his books. I was pleasantly surprised and would warmly welcome his books. Thorpe's books are lightened with humour while they contain more serious substance that provoke food for though. Easy to read, it is hard to put the book down....

Here you can find more information on the books that he has written - 'Urban Worrier' is the one that I read and recommend it with my whole heart:

www.nickthorpe.co.uk

Wednesday 4 January 2012

Cassia Lodge - the pearl in Kampala

During my recent trip to Uganda, I had a chance to spend a couple of days at a beautiful lodge located on the hills of Kampala. The lodge is in tranquil surroundings with a splendid swimming pool and gardens around it. The rooms are spacious and there are not too many of them, which helps the lodge to maintain its intimate character. It is also well resourced, ranging from a business centre where clients can use internet to a restaurant & bar that serves local delicacies but also more western style foods.


Anyone in Kampala should definitely check the lodge out - even if you don’t need a place to stay, you are welcome to go and use the pool or eat at the restaurant and admire the beautiful view over Lake Victoria.


http://www.cassialodge.com/home.html